If you wanna create a life of magic and bliss, showing up more often as your higher self instead as your ego will escalate that process.
Don’t get me wrong, luv. The ego is good too. It’s totally okay to keep showing up as your earth self every once in a while. Being an earth being could be nice and fun. But sometimes, your ego could be stopping you from experiencing your best life.
But she means well. She’s only looking after you. She’s scared and wants to protect you from any danger so she’s doing her best to keep you away from anything that’s unfamiliar and uncomfortable.
But sometimes, you need to face the unfamiliar and uncomfortable to unlock a hidden potential in you, and your ego is hindering you from doing that.
When that happens, that’s your cue to calm your ego down and let your higher self take the wheel.
But how will you know if the ego is the one taking over your life? Here are some of the signs:
Sign#1: You feel impatient.
You feel like you’re missing out in life. You feel like you’re not doing enough. You feel like your goals are not manifesting fast enough. And you just really hate that you’re still not getting what you want.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “I trust in divine timing. I am exactly where I need to be.”
Sign #2: You’re trying to control everything.
You just want everything to go as planned. Or you want to control the people around you. And when what you want doesn’t happen, you get angry, you freak the hell out and you stumble downwards.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “I trust in the universe’s plan for me. I let go of control. I’ll show up, do my best, and allow the universe to work her magic on me. I will follow her guidance.”
Sign #3: You’re constantly afraid.
You’re afraid of the future. You’re afraid of uncertainty. You’re afraid of being judged when you do your work. You’re afraid of failing so you don’t even let yourself start. You’re afraid of being not enough.
You’re just afraid of so many things and it stops you from unlocking your potential.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “Everything is always working out for my highest good. I release all worries and fears. I trust the universe with all my heart. “
Sign # 4: You’re envious.
You feel a painful feeling when you see other people happy being, doing and having what they love. You feel like you’re missing out on so many things. You feel like other people are experiencing life better than you are, and you hate that.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “There’s more than enough for everyone and amazing things are happening to me too. The universe is abundant and limitless and I can always access these blessings if I choose to.”
Sign #5: You’re self-sabotaging.
You’re working towards your ideal life, and when something good happens, you’ll sabotage it. Maybe you go back to an old bad habit, maybe you’ll pick up a fight with your partner over dumb shit, maybe you’ll do something that will cause you to spiral downwards.
Your ego seem to do everything just to bring you back to your previous happiness thermostat.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “I am worthy of all the good things in life.”
Sign #6: You judge people.
You open your social media and you start judging people in your head. You love engaging in debates in the comment section. You find comfort in seeing the wrong things people about human beings.
But your higher self knows better. She’ll be like: “I believe that deep within every human being is a good person. But they’re not perfect. And so many people are victims of victims. They were so wounded by the world that they became hurtful humans. I choose to understand and give empathy. I choose love and I’m sending love in their way.”
Can you feel the difference if your higher self is the one in control? Can you feel how freeing it will be if you let your higher self become the boss of your life? Suddenly, life seems lighter, right?
So…how to let your higher self take back the controls? Here’s what you can do:
Meditate & pray.
Meditating and praying will instantly connect you to your divinity. You’re a spiritual being having a human experience, but that doesn’t remove the fact that you’re pure magic. Inside you is this pure being that is just an expression of the divine. And meditating and praying will reconnect you to her.
Make connecting with your divinity a daily practice.
Make it easier to hear your higher self by connecting with your spirituality daily. You can do some free journaling, you can literally speak to your higher self and say “Hi goddess version of me. Can you help me with life today?”, and again, meditate and pray.
Allot a few minutes of silence everyday to just connect with her. This is going to change your life.
Surrendering means trusting the universe 101%. Trusting that everything is working for your highest good. Surrendering is a huge step of faith, and this may not be easy for people who have not created a relationship with their divinity because it seems totally illogical, unreasonable and crazy. This is why I encourage you to strengthen your connection with the universe everyday, so that surrendering will become effortless.
Everything will change the moment you deepen your relationship with your divinity. It won’t take you overnight, but when you start today, crazy amazing things will start happening soon. That’s a promise 💖